Self Portrait

ME

 

 

This is a picture of myself. But it’s more than that. The look on my face is how I feel inside the majority of the time, yet the majority of the time you see me I will have some sort of smile or laugh across my face.

I just finished reading this book called Scary Close. You should read it, it will most likely wreck your world a bit. But in the best possible way. The author addresses our desire and attempt to always put on a show for people.. To act for people so that we receive love and acceptance. I do this all the time. I’ve done it my whole life. It’s not always a bad thing, but it’s not always genuine. And if I can drop this act and still be loved, that will be genuine.

All of my closest friends and family tell me it’s ok to be myself around them and that I can be like this and make this face even when I’m with them.. AND I believe it. But it’s an internal struggle for me. I know there will be times of joy and laughter and it can be genuine. But the fake stuff sucks. Next time you see me faking it call me on it, but in a gentle way. Letting this wall down can be hard, and tiring, I’ve been building it for most of my life. But it must come down a bit.

We will all love a bit better when we learn to accept our flaws, our messes and our pains. And when drop the act.

 

Below are some nuggets from Scary Close.

“those who can’t accept their imperfections can’t accept grace either”

“How can we be loved if we are always in hiding”

“what if part of God’s message to the world was you? The true and real you?”

“honesty is the soil intimacy grows in.”

Self Portrait

4 thoughts on “Self Portrait

  1. Wow….heavy stuff Casey! I’ll have to get that book. I can surely relate. And if people were honest, most have similar walls. I love you no matter what. I’ll be praying for grace and courage to maybe start putting in a few windows at least. XOXO

  2. Thanks for the vulnerability here, Casey. That’s one of Don’s books I haven’t read, but I’ll have to pick it up. I honestly believe showing people are most true selves is the best gift we can give. Thanks for leading in that here.

  3. Thank you for this blog.

    I just want to say, I may be merely an angsty teen, but nothing around me feels real these days.
    This blog has made me cry tears that are usually reserved for self-piteous reflections about my world, my lack of feeling.
    You and your family have given reminded me of the mundane glory our Lord holds between Himself and his humans. I am so grateful. I’m getting there

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